Culture of BDSM

As a rule, people who know unforgivably little about BDSM may believe that this process is something abnormal, associated with pain, humiliation and other perversions. But all these stereotypes are justified by ignorance.  BDSM is a whole subculture, the basis of which is the mutual exchange of power in order to achieve sexual pleasure for both partners.

As a result of the fact that during sex between partners habitual social and psychological conditions are violated, prohibitions are destroyed, and the process itself takes place in the form of a role-playing game, BDSM participants can reach a special level of arousal and, accordingly, get pleasure that is not always available to those who prefer classic intercourse.

Despite the fact that many consider BDSM a kind of hard sex, sexual intercourse with penetration may not happen, since all the erotic intentions of partners are focused only on the game and more subtle and complex bodily and psychological influences than in traditional sex, no matter how it was not diverse.

In other words, BDSM is a whole art - to give pleasure and enjoy, observing and participating in the process of each other's erotic experiences. As you already understood, pain and humiliation are too loud, although there are practices that can not do without them, but, as a rule, this is such aerobatics that in order to learn how to hurt without consequences, you will have to spend in this culture one year. 

If you imagine BDSM people in latex, then we are in a hurry to dispel this myth, since latex is for amateurs. For the most part, true professionals in the art of BDSM do not recognize latex, because the skin does not breathe in it at all, partners begin to sweat intensely, then itch, and these body movements, as you understand, spoil the whole holiday, because now partners are forced to pay attention to what is happening under latex instead of enjoying everything that happens around. 

For the most real BDSM enthusiasts, the costume is not as important as it is commonly believed. If you know what to do with your partner's body, then decorative elements will only spur your ardor and create an atmosphere, nothing more. 

In addition, in the modern BDSM culture, you can find a large number of aesthetic erotic clothing that emphasizes the beauty of the human body, gives as many opportunities to touch and delight as possible. After all, BDSM is not just a series of punishments. Everything here works according to the carrot and stick method - yes, you understood correctly. After each punishment, there is always an encouragement, which is expressed in caresses, stimulation of the genitals and other actions that can lead to orgasm. 

Of course, the culture of BDSM has not stood still all the time that you thought of it as sex with a lot of hard-to-use stuff, and today, real professionals have a place to roam. A large number of lashes of different lengths and textures; handcuffs ranging from innocent and soft to leather, with spikes and rivets; masks, collars and a wide variety of shibari ropes; gags, clamps and shackles, not to mention more elaborate objects like swings for fixing a partner in space and creating the effect of weightlessness.

Despite the fact that all these attributes have a place to be in order to try yourself in the art of BDSM, you do not need to equip a special room where all your enthusiasm could fit. To fulfill your innermost fantasies, a set of basic elements (rope, whip, handcuffs) is enough. And only after both partners get a the basic idea of ​​role play and learn to listen to their own bodies, you can begin to experiment and develop. 

For those who just want to try their hand at BDSM art, experts advise to undergo specialized training to learn how to work with attributes, how to choose them in accordance with the size of the partner’s body, and also how to organize a role-playing game for the first time... And, of course, it is important to find a suitable partner for this purpose, who will also be interested and enjoy this experience - you can learn more about this here bdsmdatingsites.co.uk

The more experience, the more experimentation. In addition for delving into the world of BDSM professionally, partners may consider using elements of submission and domination in their classic intercourse. In this case, it will be enough just to agree on all the details of the upcoming process and to trust each other as much as possible.Into the world of blogging we go merrily…